Learning how to make a girl think about you a lot is going to really help you with seduction and dating. Because if you’re often on her mind, she’ll start liking you more and more.
The opposite is true as well by the way. If after your date the girl doesn’t think about you all that much or at all, then you’re in trouble. Because it means you didn’t really engage her emotionally, enough for her to remember and think about you.
This means your first date or meeting wasn’t very impactful. So she probably won’t be as keen to meet with you again, which isn’t great.
This is a pretty common issue guys face, so I’m going to help you out. By explaining all the things you need to do to make women think about you after your date. So you’ll have a much better time sparking interest, attraction and chemistry.
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Do These Things To Make Girls Think About You More Often
First of all, if you want women to think about you a lot, then you have to make sure to have a successful first date.
If you do these things right, women won’t just think about you constantly, but they’ll OBSESS over you!
That’s because seduction is all about emotions. And if you can elicit a lot of various emotions in women, just like bad boys do, then women will think about you very often.
Now let me show you how it’s done.
Best ways how to make a girl think about you
There are several ways to get girls to think about you when you’re not around:
- Be unpredictable
- Be fun and emotionally engaging
- Tease girls playfully to affect them emotionally
- Make sure you have a really good first date
- Be mysterious and don’t reveal much about yourself
- Tell various fun, interesting, exciting, entertaining, ridiculous and engaging stories
- Show off how good you are at some kind of skill, like playing the guitar
- Surprise them with something
- Give genuine compliments by learning how to call they’re beautiful without being creepy
- Call girls out on their bad behavior and mistakes
- Be challenging
- Learn how to be cocky and funny at the same time, to make your interactions unforgettable
There are many other things you can do to make a girl think about you a lot. But these are the main ones you should be focusing on.
Here’s how to get her mind on you
To get a woman’s mind on you, first and foremost you have to NOT BE BORING.
That’s because women don’t think about boring men, since there are far too many of them. And they’re often all very similar to one another. Asking women various boring interview-style questions when they’re on a date, etc.
That’s why you need to learn how to not be a boring man.
If you don’t know how to approach a woman the right way and talk to her like hundreds of other men do, she won’t think you’re anything special. Especially if you do it in a way that doesn’t stand out from all the other guys she’s been talking to that month.
To stand out from other men and to get her mind on you after you meet her, you have to approach in a memorable way. Because if you don’t do that but somehow still end up getting her number, she probably won’t even respond to you later. Or remember who you are.
This is one of the reasons why women ghost men a lot.
How do you make her crave for you?
To make a girl CRAVE you instead of just think about you, there needs to be sexual tension.
Sexual tension is the spark of chemistry between the two of you that makes her think stuff like “Does he really want me or does he not like me?”
This ambiguity is very intriguing for women. Especially if they already like you and don’t yet know if they’ve won you over.
You create this sexual tension, for example, by being physical with the girl and touching her a lot. By turning the conversation on to more intimate topics. And by maintaining strong eye contact and teasing her sexually.
When there’s enough sexual tension between you and the girl, she’ll start thinking of you a lot. Especially when you’re away from her.
Also, when there’s sexual chemistry between you and her, she’ll start thinking about sex with you as well. And if you’re not around, she’ll start FANTASIZING about you, which is even better.
Sometimes this feeling will be so strong, she’ll pick up the phone and text you or call you and suggest you meet. Because she’s horny and wants to sleep with you. Which is why sexual tension is really good for making women chase you.
How do you make a girl miss you?
Another way how to make a girl think about you is to get her to miss you a lot.
And you make a girl miss you by not always being available to her, whenever she wants to.
For example, if a girl calls you and asks for a date, then you can tell her you’re busy if you are. Instead of putting all your personal errands, work and school aside just to meet with her.
Basically, to make a girl miss you, you need to spend less time with her. Because people only start missing someone when they’re not around. And aren’t always available to meet them. Because absence makes the heart grow fonder.
So don’t be afraid to telling women “No” when you’re busy and have other things going on in your life. As this will show them you’re not desperate or needy. That you have your own things to do and aren’t putting women on a pedestal by doing everything just to please them.
This is particularly important if you think the girl is out of your league. By telling her no, you’ll signal to her that she’s not too good for you.
Paradoxically, women will want you more when you’re not always able to meet with them. Due to having many other important and fun things going on in your life.
That’s because women, and people in general, often want what they can’t have. Which will make them think about you, miss you, and even obsess over you if their feelings are strong enough.
Final thoughts on how to stick on girls’ minds
Now that you know how to make a girl think about you, you should use this to your advantage.
You see, when you meet and hang out and you both enjoy each other’s company, she’ll start to like you. But over time, her interest in you will fade, little by little.
To make sure her attraction towards you doesn’t diminish as fast as it otherwise would, make sure to use all the tips I have above. Then, when you’re apart doing whatever it is you have to do in your life, she’ll maintain her interest in you. And sometimes, if you’ve been memorable and fun enough to hang out with, that interest and attraction will GROW.
That’s the advantage of having girls think about you. When you’re not around, their interest can actually grow because they’ll start missing you a lot. Since you’re just so fun and interesting to hang out with.
This takes charm, charisma, with, and good social skills to pull off. So start learning!