I’m just a guy who did something he liked for over a decade, learned a lot, became very successful at it, and picked up tons of useful knowledge along the way. Now I teach that knowledge to others who want to achieve at least the same level of success with women as I have.
But if you want the long story – here goes!
Growing up, I was a complete nerd and spent most of my time gaming on my pc – all to the detriment of my social skills.
After hitting 19 and not having even kissed a girl by then, I decided that enough was enough; that things had to change because I didn’t want to live my life being cooped up in my room gaming and end up alone.
To change my life, I decided to work on myself and learn everything there is to know about social skills – and my journey of self-help and self-improvement started.
I started to actively go out and meet people everywhere. During the first year alone, I met thousands of people each and every month by approaching hundreds of guys and girls, every single week. On the street, at clubs, in bars, at the beach, in shopping malls, libraries, etc. Wherever I saw people, I approached them and then just improvised.
Eventually, after innumerable brutal and awkward interactions, I learned from my mistakes and started to understand what worked in social interactions, and what didn’t. I had gradually built up enough social confidence, decent conversational skills, as well as solid body language, eye contact, and various mannerisms, as well as developed my personality – up to the point where other people started to enjoy my company!
I learned to rely on my personality, my wit, and my sense of humor – nothing else.
And then – POOF – a new man was born. Everyone who knew me before my self-improvement journey saw that I was now a completely different person. I had developed attractive character traits and my personality up to the point where I actually started to LIKE myself as a person, and that’s where it all changed! As if by magic, other people started to like me, too! But sadly, it wasn’t through magic but years of hard work and effort working on myself.
And then I started to get laid. A LOT. And by a lot, I mean 3-5 different girls, every single week – and sometimes even 2-4 different girls the same day! I lost count somewhere around 500: threesomes, foursomes, you name it! I’ve had multiple fuckbuddies and friends with benefits for every single day of the week. I could just call up a few of the dozens of girls I was seeing at the time and have sex anytime I wanted. That’s when I realized that I’ve gotten incredibly good at meeting and seducing women, and then having a great time with them.
Eventually, people started noticing, and some offered me money to teach them. And that is exactly what I did!
After I taught multiple guys what I know, they started accomplishing similar things and eventually become very successful with women. They got over their psychological hangups, got their body language, eye contact, mannerisms, mindsets, and other similar things in order, and then started to rely on themselves to have fun and sleep with multiple women per week. My customers started having lots of casual sex, frequently made many new friends-with-benefits relationships, or even found serious girlfriends, depending on what their personal goals were. More and more people came and asked me for lessons, so I decided to take this whole thing seriously, and teach people as much as I can. Even though this started out as simply a hobby – and it still is since I make my money from another business – it became a passion project of mine because I started enjoying changing people’s lives for the better, and helping them deal with the pain and anguish of being alone and unlikable, like I once had.
And that’s where I am today, teaching what I know to guys who want to improve themselves and their personalities at the core. I teach men how to get over their psychological hangups that screw with their inner game and massively affect their results with women. I teach guys how to become a naturally attractive, sexworthy man who women love, chase, and adore, and want to have sex with themselves! I teach men how to develop their confidence, masculinity, social skills, and drop bad habits like neediness, desperation, and similar things which ruin their chances with women. I teach both inner and outer game, but have noticed that most guys tend to be their own worst enemies, and 90% of their problems are with their inner game stuff. My goal is to show you how to become more confident, fun, interesting and exciting, and get your love life handled.
I’m not teaching some “just be confident, be yourself” bullshit – I’m teaching how to get your shit in order, how to attain great social skills – and how to flirt, befriend, tease, and have awesome dates with many different girls so that they WANT to sleep with YOU. That said, all of this takes time and effort – and there is no quick way to do this – so if you’re here looking for a magic potion that will instantly make all women want you – then this material is not for you!
My articles may have click-baity titles, and may sound weird at places due to keyword and SEO optimization – but they are always in-depth, and are NOT for skimming!
By reading my blog, you will get tons of ideas on how to up your game, and become much better with women. However, to get the best results, I urge you to read my Inner Game course, and then my book on how to consistently have awesome first dates that end up in sex. I used the techniques from it on literally hundreds of girls to sleep with them right at the end of our first date.
Now, let’s skip 10 years – and I’m currently in a happy, stable and committed relationship, writing articles, books and courses on attraction and seduction. I’m in my early 30s, and I don’t claim to be the best, or even the most effective “pick-up artist” or “guru” on the planet. I’m more of a “get your shit together and get laid a lot” type of coach, who gets you REAL and RELIABLE results.
I still get nervous sometimes, when approaching. I still experience awkward moments, when talking. But it’s only natural, because I’m human. I learned to deal with these emotions and accept that I’m not perfect.
My style is pure natural game – nothing less, nothing more. No gimmicks, no canned pick-up lines, and no bullshit. I approach, say “Hi” – and then the fun starts! Pure emotions.
My material focuses on being genuine and authentic with women, and on developing yourself as a person until you can fully rely on yourself and your personality to deal with anything that comes your way. I don’t have to tell you how much women adore such a person! A charming guy who has his shit together and is fun, interesting, or exciting to be around is like a unicorn. You can become that guy after a little while of learning and applying my material, and then by dealing with various insecurities, self-esteem problems, and other psychological issues that are holding you back from greatness.
That said, I do have and use certain techniques, stories and other similar things that over the years I found to be significantly more effective than anything else. As sad as it is, if you want to be CONSISTENTLY successful on your dates, you’ll have a much easier time if you do use certain things and simple routines, that get certain reactions out of people and showcase who you are. For example, role-playing, teasing, silly games, a few stories that elicit strong emotions, etc.
If I now met 10 single girls who agreed to go on a date with me, and just did my thing on those dates, I’d probably sleep with 6 or 7 of them, taking my past experiences into account. If I use certain stories, games, role-play scenarios, and similar things – but nothing artificial or manipulative – I’ll probably end up sleeping with 8, or 9, or even all of them.
So that’s what I’m offering. I just understand that I have developed my personality to the point where I became extraordinarily successful with women and got laid like a rock star during my decade of actively going out.
According to most surveys, the average guy sleeps with around 10-14 women in his lifetime. I’ve slept with over half a thousand, and even completely lost track at some point, to be honest – but most of it is documented in pictures and videos, for my own personal amusement and enjoyment. I guess that makes me “slightly” above average, and demonstrates that I know what the fuck I’m doing.
It’s basically going from 0 success and having a ton of insecurities and self-esteem issues, to getting all of those psychological problems handled and being able to have casual sex or build a relationship with a girl, whenever I want to. It’s great being the chooser, instead of having nothing.
I’ve shattered the myth that a gamer nerd can’t ever be successful with women. And I can challenge you to do the same, and build you up into a socially aware, chill, cool, and sexworthy man.
I want more guys to be able to do the same thing I did, because having abundance with women is incredibly liberating, and, frankly – FUCKING AWESOME!
Now just sit back, grab a coffee and relax, and read my blog articles – they contain very good information for all guys who are interested in learning how attraction and seduction work.
Or, if you want the very advanced stuff which will help you get as many casual or serious relationships as you want, go to http://www.saulisdating.com for my practical guide on what to do on the first date so that you’ll nearly always get laid.
And finally, sign up for my newsletter for a full Inner Game Course, which I currently provide for free, without any marketing bullshit, while it’s still under development. So far there are 14 full, in-depth, and very advanced lessons that target the biggest insecurities and self-esteem issues, and show you REAL and PRACTICAL ways of solving them, that cognitive behavioral therapists use.
Other than that, drop me a line here, on Quora, through Reddit, or simply by writing me an e-mail.
My story is the same as yours.. Im trying to WAKE up and start living what i have missed for years..
Im currently trying to get the attention of an older woman (my boss), do you have any special advices or should i try the teasing, bad boy play.
Thank you for what you are doing, its really helpfull!
I’ve emailed you for more info to see if I can help you with that.
Hello I didnt recieve any mail, and stopped recieving the Inner game course.. Is there any mail where i can contact you?