Signs a girl likes you and wants you to make a move on her! 2023 Update

So you want to learn what the signs a girl likes you are and how to tell if she wants you to notice her romantically?

Great, you’ll see the full list of these signs in the next section below!

And it’s pretty important you check them out because tons of guys have trouble reading girls’ signals these days.

They don’t know how to tell if a girl is interested in them and if she wants them sexually. So they often do nothing at all and screw things up. This causes guys to miss many great opportunities for new relationships or simply prevents them from getting laid.

You see, during the date, missing a girl’s signals can lead to a lot of awkwardness. Especially when a girl likes you and signals very clearly that you should just make your move on her. But you don’t realize these signals and completely blow it by being too passive and not taking the chance.

At best, she’ll think you’re timid and indecisive.

At worst, she’ll think you’re just a wussy who’s too afraid to make a move and is clueless about women. Even when she clearly gives you all the signs that she wants you to do that and is waiting for you to take action.

And women DO NOT respect guys who are afraid to make a move. Which means there won’t be any attraction.

Below, I’ll show you what the main signs she wants you to notice her are and reveal how you can take advantage of them to finally make your move.

Here are some of the more obvious signs a girl likes you and wants you to make a move on her:

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Here’s how to tell if a girl wants you and likes you — the main signs of attraction:

  1. She “casually” keeps touching you.
  2. Plays with her hair while talking to you.
  3. Laughs at all your jokes, even the stupid ones. (This is one of the signs a girl likes you that’s easiest to notice)
  4. Gazes intensely into your eyes and smiles at you a lot.
  5. Tells you she likes you. (This is the most obvious sign, but some guys miss even that!)
  6. Asks about your other female friends or whether you have a girlfriend. (This is one of the signs that she wants you that I get the most on dates!) If she’s interested in finding out who you’re seeing other than her, it clearly shows she’s looking out for who the competition is because she wants you all to herself.
  7. Occasionally watches your lips and keeps licking hers. This means she’s thinking of kissing you.
  8. Enjoys holding long and intimate eye contact with you, without it feeling awkward the least bit. (This is a HUGE one, so don’t miss it!)
  9. Arranges or agrees to meet or hang out with you alone, without her friends or acquaintances.
  10. Hits you playfully, while calling you a “jerk” or an “asshole,” etc. but laughing at the same time. (This is one of the best physical signs a woman is interested in you. Women often do this when you’re witty and cocky and funny at the same time, and it’s a MASSIVE sign of their attraction towards you. )
  11. Feels comfortable being very close to you and when you touch her. (This is one of the most important things you can notice. And one of the 6 signs a girl wants you to touch her as well. Does she shy away from your touch or welcome it? Watch her reactions when you touch her — they’re very telling.)
  12. Calls you over to her place or asks if she can come to yours! There are almost no better signs that she wants you to make a move on her than this. Since this one almost screams at you “Take me now!” It means she wants to get you somewhere private, away from prying eyes, so you can become more intimate with each other, without any distractions.
  13. Gives you sexual compliments. It’s pretty much one of the most direct and obvious signs a woman is attracted to you sexually. If you like her, reciprocate in kind and give her a similar compliment as well.
  14. Talks about sex with you. If she does this, she is definitely thinking about you and the possibility of having sex together. You should never shy away from this subject, particularly when it’s the girl who brings this up. Just don’t make it seem desperate and have her believe it’s the only thing you want to talk about. Also, make sure to never show shame when talking about sex! It’s actually one of the secrets why women like bad boys so much.
  15. Gets close to you and gives you “The Look” — You know, the “I want you right here and right now” look. Most guys who know how to tell if a girl likes you can instantly spot this look! This is pretty much the ultimate sign that she wants you to make a move on her and wants the D. However, it’s a bit hard to notice if you are inexperienced.

As you can see, most of the obvious signs that show when a girl likes you and wants you to notice her interest in you have to do with comfort.

How comfortable she feels with your presence and touch, and how badly she wants to get you alone, away from everyone else, says a lot about her intentions.

So remember: When a girl is completely comfortable around you, is comfortable with your touch and finds excuses to be alone near you — she likes you and wants you!

This is also why it’s important to keep track of all the signs a girl wants you to touch her. Because touch leads to comfort and later to intimacy.

Other than that, one of the best ways to see if a girl wants to have sex with you is to notice the subtle hints she gives you about you two going to somewhere more private, like her place, or yours. After you notice these signals, clues and hints, then it’s pretty straightforward to get a girl into bed when she wants to come over.

There are, of course, many other signs that a woman likes you, but these are the very obvious ones.

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Now, let’s take a look at the more subtle signs that you should consider looking out for, if you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you and whether she wants the D!

The subtle signs a woman likes you and that she wants you to notice her:

  1. When a girl likes you, she’ll always find excuses to be near you.
  2. When she faces her feet towards you and has open body language, she fancies you. (Most guys forget that what a person does with their feet is almost entirely subconscious and can reveal inner thoughts and feelings.)
  3. She reveals or lightly touches her erogenous zones, like her neck, wrists, thighs, etc. (It’s definitely one of the most subtle hints a girl likes you because it’s so difficult to notice on a date.)
  4. When she mirrors you, it shows a subconscious attraction. (This is one of the best but hard to notice subtle signs that she likes you and wants you bad, and it often happens subconsciously and unintentionally! Only very astute and perceptive guys notice this.)
  5. Another very subtle hint that a woman likes you and wants you is when her blink rate increases and her breathing becomes more shallow. This often happens when people are emotionally excited and turned on. It’s one of the more subtle clues of how to tell if a girl wants to have sex with you.
  6. Another great gesture is when she doesn’t bring up any other guys when in conversation with you, ever. This is often done subconsciously because the girl doesn’t want to “blow it” with you by seeming like she is already “taken by someone else.” It’s a very subtle sign when a girl likes you, but worth noticing if the girl is particularly attractive! (That said, some women like to bring their past boyfriends or guy friends up as a shittest to test your character and see how you handle this information. They want to know if you’d get jealous and possessive and wants to see if you’re needy or desperate. If you want to know how to deal with those shit tests, make sure to read How to pass any and all shit tests that women throw at you)

So these are some of the more subtle signs a girl likes you and how to tell that.

Oftentimes, they’re so subtle you don’t even notice them until someone points them out to you! But now that you know what to look out for, with a little bit of practice and some perception, you will eventually start noticing them more and more often.

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With all of this said, it’s very unfortunate that for most guys, it’s still pretty hard to notice all the signs she wants the D because she’s very attracted to you. Even if the girl is being not so subtle! In that case, here’s what you do:

My main advice to you is — just act!

If all you’re doing is trying to figure out how to know if a girl is interested in you and then you end up doing nothing at all by remaining passive because you’re overthinking things… Then you’re going to miss your chance!

So here’s what you do after you learn to read the signs she wants you to notice her:

Just make your move and don’t ask! 

Especially if you notice any physical signs a woman is interested in you and wants you to touch her.

That’s because most women don’t respect men who have to ask for permission to kiss or hug them. Women like men who take charge, who don’t doubt themselves and don’t second-guess their decisions! These are some of the most important character traits that women find attractive in men.

At worst, you will be rejected — but so what?

If it’s a hard rejection, then you’ll know exactly where you stand. And you’ll be able to move on to other girls without wasting too much time on this one.

If it’s a soft rejection, which is much more likely to be the case and which means “Not yet…” instead of “Not ever!” Then you can continue having a great time together with her. And when she warms up to you further and becomes more receptive to your touch, you go for another chance.

This is called persistence. Proper persistence is attractive and not creepy. Because you’re being cool, having a great time with her and going for what you want. While also showing her you respect her as a person. Without becoming all butthurt and bitter about the whole situation.

Still looking for more signs of female attraction without acting?

If you’re constantly looking for more and more signs of female attraction when you’re talking to a woman. Then it means you’re simply not being present and aren’t paying attention to her. That’s because her actions and facial expressions will show you everything you want to know regarding how she feels about you.

Whatever the case may be, if you go for what you want and don’t apologize for taking charge – most women will respect you. Even if some of them won’t like it.

And respect is incredibly important if you later want to pursue a casual or serious relationship with her. So don’t remain passive! And when you see some of the signs that she’s attracted to you that I showed you above, just go for it!

That’s because if you keep looking for signs of female attraction until you make your move, you’re very likely to miss your chance and not get anything at all.

But don’t worry, I won’t abandon you without a solution.

Practical technique to check her interest before you kiss her

If you’re still doubting yourself after seeing all of these signs a girl likes you and wants you to make a move on her… Here’s an easy trick to gauge her interest levels in you even further:

When you’re thinking if it’s the right time to kiss her, lightly brush her hair with your hand, saying something like “I like your hair”, or “Your hair feels so soft”, etc. And then watch her reaction! 

If her reaction is positive and she doesn’t pull away or show any other signs of discomfort. Then you’re good to go and you should kiss her because she wants you to!

If, however, you notice a lot of discomfort on her part or if she pulls away from your hand, looks disgruntled, or stops your hand herself. Then it’s a clear flag she’s not ready to be kissed yet. It means you still don’t have enough comfort and attraction built with her to start kissing her at that moment.

If that’s the case, just continue as if nothing happened. Focus on having more fun with her, on connecting with her as a person. And building some more attraction. For example by playfully teasing her a bit. And then make your move again later.

The point of this test is to touch her somewhere where two strangers shouldn’t be touching each other. And NOTICE HER REACTION to your touch. If she’s super comfortable with it and is receptive, it means she likes you and wants you!

If you don’t like touching hair, you can take her by the hand and watch what she does. Or let your knees or shoulders touch for a decent amount of time. If she pulls away, she’s not ready. If she likes it, you can kiss her.

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Take intimacy somewhere private, don’t do it publicly first

Just don’t make any SEXUAL moves when you’re in public. Because that’s crass! No matter how many signs of female attraction you notice her give you.

Do it in private because girls want to feel safe and not be judged by anyone else who might see you. Particularly if her friends are around! Remember that slut-shaming is still a real thing, as sad as it is. So don’t put unnecessary pressure on the girl and take everything somewhere more private.

And here’s another thing you should definitely consider:

Guys who are very successful with women know this mantra by heart: If she looks at you, she wants you to talk to her. If she talks to you, she wants you to make her laugh. And if she laughs, she wants you to touch her. If she touches you, she wants you to kiss her. And if she kisses you, she wants you to sleep with her.

So now that you know what the signs she wants you to notice her are, it’s time to ask you something in return:

What signs do you notice the most in women who are into you? Are they reliable and do you have an easy time seeing them? Or do you have a hard time noticing them at all and often blow your chances with women by remaining too passive, too full of doubt, and too indecisive?

Write your experiences in the comments below. I’ll read them and give you some feedback to help you out on your next date.

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Andrius Saulis has over 15 years of extensive hands-on experience and expertise in the field of Dating, Seduction, Relationships and Social Dynamics. He's helping men all around the world get rid of their insecurities, regain their high self-esteem and confidence, and become successful with women. He teaches men how to attract and seduce women not through manipulative tactics, but by being their genuine, authentic and charming selves, while exuding a flirty, confident and sexy vibe that women can't get enough of. Learn how to have a flawless first date with The Saulis Dating Guide to get as many serious or casual relationships as you want.


  1. Wom Sedu
    October 29, 2017

    I agree with many ideas in your post.
    In my case, when I teased the girl through messages I always talk to her about something that is related to sex. I need to give the girl a reason for me and her to be close to each other.

  2. John
    December 20, 2019

    Oh please … seriously … woman can all go fuck themselves. They don’t know what they want, so they sure as hell can’t (or won’t) tell you. If they are giving a guy any of these so-called signs you can assume they are just setting you up for a big harassment charge. No woman is worth the risk of being with one. There’s nothing positive they can add to your life, so don’t waste any effort or time on them. It’s best to completely ignore women at all times. It’s much safer to play Russian Roulette.

    • saulisdating
      February 13, 2020

      Damn, who hurt you?

      That’s probably one of the most closeminded things I’ve read. But there’s still help for someone who feels like you do. And you seriously need to seek help because being this bitter and butthurt is no way to live. There are plenty of awesome women in the world. You just seem to not know how to communicate with women.

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