How to get a MILF The Right Way in 2024

If you’re wondering how to seduce a MILF most effectively, then you’re in the right place.

You’ll find out exactly how to attract and then start a casual or serious relationship with a “Mother I‘d Like to Fuck.” You’ll also understand why seducing women with kids is a little bit different than seduction of non-milfs.

I’ll also reveal several very powerful secrets about how to get a milf interested in you quickly.

Seducing Milfs Isn’t Difficult When You Know What They Want

First of all, seducing women with children is very similar to how you seduce a woman who’s not a mother yet. Because nothing’s really changed on a fundamental level — She’s still the same person she was before. With similar desires, wants and needs when it comes to men.

This means she’ll respond to the same things that women without kids will respond to. This is very important to understand when you’re learning how to seduce milfs in general.

So, just like women without children, milfs also want companionship, sex, security and a potential for mutual growth with their long-term partners. And lots of sex, fun, and emotions from their short-term partners.

Except they don’t like playing games anymore.

So, how you approach the whole thing and how successful you’ll be will depend on your goals and hers. Whether you both just want to have a bit of fun together and a steamy night of hot passion. Or if you’re both looking for a long-term and more serious relationship than just casual sex. Because believe it or not, some milfs will just want casual sex and won’t be looking for a serious relationship. Especially if they’ve just gotten out of a bad or abusive relationship.

In fact, most older women and milfs will be much more sex-crazy than younger women and those without children. Because women’s sexual peak begins around thirties. Mostly between the ages of 27 to 45 — it’s science.

How to Get a milf:

This is, by far, the biggest difference between seducing milfs and women without children.

The majority of mothers will have much more life experience than women without children. They’ve been through most of the games with men and aren’t as naive as they used to be. As a result, most milfs know what they want and like it when men are more direct and less prone to playing games.

When you know this little piece of information, you can use it to your advantage in a huge way when seducing milfs. It’s one of the biggest secrets of how to successfully seduce a milf.

When you’re on a date with a milf or have just met one and are talking casually. You should ask her what her relationship goals are.

Obviously not right in the beginning but after you’ve already had a nice chat, hit it off and seen that she enjoys your company and likes you. Because it’d be super creepy and weird if it’s the first thing you ask her.

But when you’ve spent some time talking and getting to know each other. And you’ve noticed her interest in you. Then always be sure to ask her this.

Ask whether she’s more interested in a serious relationship with men right now. Because she’s looking for a father and provider for her children and someone she can grow further with. Since family, safety and security are what’s on her mind. Or if she’s just after a casual relationship and some fun. And isn’t looking for anything serious at the moment.

Don’t overcomplicate it, ask her in a direct and simple way

A good way to do that is a simple “So now that you have children, what kind of relationship are you looking for? Something serious or just some fun?” That works great most of the time.

Or lead with what YOU want first. Something like “I’m looking for something real and serious myself. How about you?” or “I’m just looking for some fun and a casual relationship. What are you looking for?”

When you ask her these things, most milfs will give you a direct and truthful answer. Again, because they usually know what they want much better than women without children do. And they aren’t very interested in playing pointless games anymore. They’ve been through all that and already have the most precious thing in their lives. So there’s little uncertainty moving forward.

Her answer to your question will make the whole seduction process significantly easier and smoother. Because you’ll know the exact way to proceed further and how to seduce milfs like her. When you know precisely what she wants and expects.

How To Get Milfs Who Want A Serious Relationship

Now I’ll tell you exactly how to seduce a milf who’s looking for something serious.

So let’s say you meet a hot milf and she tells you she’s looking for a serious relationship and not just casual sex. She’s more interested in a companion and a provider than a spicy lover. Although both at once would be ideal. Since it’s great to have the best of both worlds, if possible.

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First, make sure this suits you as well. Because if she’s looking for a very serious relationship and you just want to fuck her and dump her like trash. Then you should have your balls cut off.

There are plenty of women who are looking for casual sex. So it’s not necessary to deceive and screw anyone over if you have different goals. I’m teaching you how to seduce a milf so you can have a great time together. Not so you can wreck her self-esteem and dump her once you get what you want.

After you’ve decided that you have similar goals and want a serious relationship with a milf, then the fastest way to her heart is through her child. Or her children, if she has more than one.

Her children are her heart

By that, I mean you’ll need to make an effort to befriend her children. Because if they like you a lot, she will as well. Since they’re the most important people in her life right now and always priority number one.

If you neglect to become friends with her children (which is a huge mistake most guys make when dating a milf) then you’re going to quickly run out of luck.

Trust me, befriending her children is a HUGE part of how to seduce milfs the right way. Because fact is, it’s nearly impossible to have a loving and caring relationship with a woman who has kids if her kids hate your guts. Unless, of course, they hate each other and live separately. Which mostly means her children are adults now.

Other than that, make sure her kids like you a lot. And you’ll soon notice your chances of being in a serious relationship with her will skyrocket. Because you’ll be all they talk about and she’ll quickly notice it.

She’ll then think you’ll make a great husband and father because her kids already love you. And seducing her will be a breeze because most of the work will be done for you.

How to get a milf – The seduction process.

Here’s how to seduce a milf successfully:

1. You start off as usual: You see her, she catches your attention, you approach her and talk to her. Then you focus on having a fun, interesting or exciting conversation with her and on enjoying each other’s company. Then see if you click. Finally, if there’s mutual interest and attraction, you exchange numbers and set up your date.
2. Once on your date, you focus on HAVING FUN, all while being physical with her, little by little. After a while, start getting to know each other, connecting on a deeper level, creating rapport, building comfort and trust, as well as attraction. Once that’s all done, you create and maintain sexual tension and have her want you sexually. There’s absolutely nothing different here than what you’d do on any date with any woman who’s not a milf. At this point, if everything’s going great, she’ll think you’re a great guy and will want to sleep with you.
3. But here’s the important bit and the thing which helps you seduce milfs for a long-term relationship: During your date, you take an interest in her children! At some point during your conversations, when you see that she’s having a great time with you, change the subject and start talking about her kids. Ask her questions about them, what they enjoy, why she loves them so much and so on. Simply let her tell you as much as she can about them and watch her light up as she does. At some point, tell her you’d like to meet them someday. If she liked you by now, her attraction towards you will skyrocket even more. Then it’ll be quite easy to progress things further and set up more dates. And eventually meet her children, befriend them and start a serious relationship.
4. Once you’ve had a great date, either set up the next one or go home together and have some fun between the sheets. It’s not that complicated if you know what you’re doing.

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Show genuine interest but be assertive and decisive

Now you should have a good idea of how to get a milf you’re interested in. In fact, this is pretty much how you seduce all women on dates and not just milfs.

However, the main thing that’ll skyrocket your attraction levels to her, if she wants someone who’s serious about starting a family and being a great stepfather to her children, is you taking a genuine interest in them. This shows you’re thinking ahead, acknowledging her situation fully and that you ACTUALLY like and care about children. And don’t see them as a problem at all.

Also, don’t forget to be direct in not just asking the question about what she wants, but in everything else. Be more dominant with milfs and older women in general. When you see that she likes you, escalate strongly and directly.

Don’t play around and go for what you want. Experienced women who know what they want often like men who also know what they want. Being more direct, assertive and decisive is a quick way to build attraction and get laid with not just milfs but any older woman. Because they don’t like men who are clueless, timid and meek.

Now let’s talk about how to get a milf and what to do when a she isn’t interested in anything serious.

How To Get A Milf Who Just Wants Some Fun

To know how to seduce milfs who don’t want anything serious, you need to understand that they don’t even want you to meet their children at all.

It’s the complete opposite of how you approach seducing milfs who want something serious.

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They know you’re not going to stick around because they mostly only want sex from you. They’ll be entirely fine if you don’t ever meet their children. Because they don’t even see you as a potential partner or stepfather to them.

These milfs just want your dick inside them. And their kids are the last thing on their mind to achieving this goal.

So, when seducing milfs who are just out for some casual sex or hookups, don’t even mention their children. Because that’ll completely kill the mood and they’ll snap out of the “Let’s have some fun” vibe. Into “I’m a responsible adult with huge responsibilities now!” vibe.

Don’t bring up her children – they aren’t relevant

Seriously, don’t ask her about her children. Don’t ask her about motherhood. And don’t talk about kids at all, in general. Focus on her instead and on making her feel beautiful and desired.

If she brings her kids up, acknowledge them and say “They seem very sweet” or something similar and then quickly change the subject.

Changing the subject is IMPERATIVE at this point. Because talking about her kids will kill the sexual tension. And you want to build and maintain as much sexual tension as possible with milfs who want hookups.

Other than that, you should proceed as normal. Just like you’d be on a date or talking at the bar with any other woman who doesn’t have kids. Because if she’s interested in a casual relationship or sex she doesn’t want to think about her children at that moment.

She wants some fun and to forget about her responsibilities. So you should focus on just that and nothing else.

When I was in a casual fuckbuddy relationship with a hot milf who used to model for a sports magazine, that’s exactly what I did. When we first met I asked what she wanted and she said nothing serious right now. Then during our date, she showed me a picture of her daughter, I acknowledged it by saying “She’s cute” and changed the subject immediately. After that, I never mentioned her daughter again and we didn’t talk about her at all. We ended hooking up the same evening and slept around for several months before we moved on.

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A quick recap on how to get milfs

So you see, the key to how to get a milf and seduce her lies in the fact that they usually know what they want and don’t like to play games anymore due to experience.

The big secret is that you seduce a hot mother with a kid the same way you’d seduce any other woman. Except if you want a very serious relationship with her, you need to focus heavily on showing her you CARE about her children and want them in your life. Also, once she realizes this, you actually need to put in the effort to get to know her children, befriend them, and spend time with them so they love and adore you as well. Once they do, their mother will do the same.

When trying to figure out how to seduce a milf in the best way, lots of guys screw up thinking they have to do something special and very different.

Fact is, the absolute same thing will work on a mother as on a woman who doesn’t have any children. Because women are women — they don’t magically change into some other creature once they give birth.

They still want what all other women want in life. A little enjoyment, companionship, love, sex, security, mutual respect and understanding. And seeing their kids grow up to have a great life. But they’re not above having lots of casual sex if they choose to do so. That’s normal and natural human behavior because sex is awesome when done with the right person 🙂

So, if you’re into milfs, find one who has similar goals to yours and then proceed accordingly. That’s the ultimate truth of how to seduce milfs the right way.

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