The sensational and clickbaity title is meant to target a key word which a lot of men these days search for, in the futile hopes of trying to find a “Magic Pill” which will let them know how to get any girl they want. But the reality is – there is no magic pill, and anyone who tells you otherwise is being dishonest or is trying to sell you something. My goal here is to try and educate guys who think this way, and to show them how they can improve themselves and their social skills, learn certain social dynamics and about how attraction and seduction works, then help them deal with their psychological issues – so that they CAN be successful with MOST women who they meet and interact with – but definitely not all.<\/strong><\/p>\n Phew! Now that we’ve got this out of the way – let’s get to the nitty gritty of it all!<\/p>\n Go and ask any random woman what kind of man she would like, and what makes a man attractive to her.<\/p>\n In fact, go ask this question to your sister, mom, grandma, or the cute girl next door, or your hot co-worker – or any other girl that you meet.<\/p>\n They will all tell you stuff like:<\/p>\n \u201cOh, he\u2019s got to be nice. He\u2019s got to understand me. He\u2019s got to treat me right. He has to be there for me when I need him.\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 and a lot of similar things.<\/p>\n Funny enough, most women will say that to you \u2013 and they will mean it, too, because when they take the time to think about it logically, they will genuinely believe\u00a0that these are the types of men who they’d want to have a relationship with.<\/p>\n However, what they actually respond to<\/strong>, on a gut level of attraction<\/strong>, is something ENTIRELY different! And I\u2019ll explain all of this, and why it will let you know how to get any girl who’s single and looking for a lover, below.<\/p>\n But first, to understand why this happens, let\u2019s get back to what most girls tell guys about what they want in a man.<\/em><\/p>\n Sure, that\u2019s great advice for when you\u2019re married<\/em>\u00a0or already in a very serious relationship \u2013 but that will do nothing<\/em>\u00a0to build the initial attraction which makes the woman in question want you sexually in the first place. This will do nothing to make her want you to be her LOVER,<\/em>\u00a0which is crucial for her to\u00a0to actually want to start a\u00a0serious or even casual relationship with you.<\/p>\n And a lot of men will fall for this trap. You\u2019ll hear many nice guys complaining \u201cOh, I treat her right all the time! I\u2019m so nice to all these girls! I want her to be happy! I want her to have nice things! And I want her to see what a great guy I am!\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n And then comes the inevitable \u201cBut she always ends up in the hands of this jerk, asshole, douchebag, and not me! WHYYYYY!? I\u2019m doing EVERYTHING for her, and she still goes to someone else!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n What they fail to realize is that they need to do all this “lovey-dovey, caring, provider” stuff later, when they’re already in the relationship, and not right off the bat!<\/p>\n What attracts women in the first place, are the emotions that they\u00a0experiences around you. Many different emotions, of a wide spectrum, both positive, and negative ones.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em>And, for there to be lots of emotions in your interactions, there has to be at least a little bit of drama, conflict, and other similar things.<\/p>\n So yeah\u2026 all I have to say regarding this is \u2013 do not\u00a0take any advice regarding women from other women!\u00a0<\/strong><\/em>Especially if you want to know how to get any girl that you find attractive.<\/p>\n Women will logically tell you that they want and like one thing \u2013 but when it comes to true gut level attraction that they feel towards men \u2013 girls are ANYTHING but logical. That\u2019s because you can\u2019t \u201clogic\u201d your way into someone\u2019s pants \u2013 since attraction is not a choice and is entirely based on emotions.<\/p>\n In fact, what I\u2019ve noticed is that your average attractive girl has next to no idea what she actually wants from a man, except that he should treat her right. I\u2019ve asked this question to thousands of women who I went on a date with: \u201cWhat\u2019s your ideal type of man? What does he look like and how does he behave?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Most women will describe some cliche \u201cTall, handsome, well-built, confident yet nice guy who spends a lot of time with them, always listens to them, and treats them right\u201d<\/strong>.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s great!\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 I reply, knowing that I\u2019m NOTHING like the guy she describes, neither in looks nor personality. Then I promptly take her home that very same evening and fuck her brains out, while she moans with pleasure and forgets all about what type of guy she wanted in the first place. Go figure!<\/p>\n So, where did this \u201cideal guy\u201d that she described to me just a while ago disappear to, all of a sudden? Why would she describe him, but then promptly forget that description and go sleep with ME \u2013 someone who\u2019s dorky, average in looks, dresses in simple, cheap yet comfortable clothes, and is neither tall nor handsome? That \u201cideal guy\u201d went completely out the window and suddenly became ENTIRELY irrelevant!<\/p>\n Why? Simply because she logically tried to describe her perfect guy \u2013 but then she ran into me – someone who is masculine and knows how attraction and seduction works, who can evoke various powerful emotions in her through actions and conversation. These emotions are as addicting to her as a drug, and trigger a gut level attraction response.\u00a0They make her see me in an entirely different light than she’s used to seeing other men in, who tend to be dull and boring on their dates. These emotions trigger her arousal and lust, and along with my actions create lots of sexual tension and make her horny with anticipation, so that she’ll want to\u00a0sleep with me the very same day – the sooner the better.<\/p>\n So, a girl will tell you one thing about the type of guy she wants to meet and would like to have a serious relationship with \u2013 but then she\u2019ll turn around and sleep with a COMPLETELY different type of guy, simply because he knew how to affect her emotionally, spark attraction, create sexual tension, and genuinely have a good time with her.<\/p>\n It\u2019s pretty simple \u2013 if you want to learn how to get any girl – DO NOT be discouraged by the type of men that women describe as their ideal partner.<\/p>\n Because that\u2019s the thing about \u201cideal partners\u201d \u2013 they are a FANTASY in the woman\u2019s mind! That guy who they describe is just their \u201cideal vision\u201d of someone\u00a0who they\u2019d like to meet and \u201chave a happy life with\u201d \u2013 sort of a dashing prince on a white stallion who will swoop her off her feet and whisk her away to some magical happy kingdom land where they will live happily ever after, forever and ever. Isn\u2019t that just so cute and sweet? <\/em>\ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n Inside every woman, there is a little princess who just wants a happy ending.<\/p>\n But then a certain type of guy comes along. A guy who is secure in himself, has his shit together, and knows how attraction and seduction works. Someone who understands that inside every women, aside from that little princess, there’s also a raging slut wanting to fuck and experience pleasure – and he does not judge her for it!<\/strong><\/p>\n A guy who understands\u00a0that it\u2019s all about the emotional investment that you create through your interaction which makes women want you sexually – and not because of external things like looks, money, status, fame, or any other bullshit that you can think of. A guy who knows what sexual tension is, how to create it, hold it, and use it to his advantage \u2013 and fuck her silly that very same evening. And then choose whether to start a casual or serious relationship with her based on the girls MERITS and VALUES, or even just leave it at that, if the whole experience ends up being unsatisfying in the end. That guy is the CHOOSER.\u00a0<\/strong>He is authentic, he’s honest about what he wants, and he genuinely connects with women on an intellectual, physical, and, most importantly, sexual level.<\/p>\n So, why not be that guy?<\/strong> That guy knows how to get more pussy than his peers because he understands that the main currency of attraction are\u00a0emotions \u2013 and that lets him know how to get pretty much any girl that he wants. He’s not necessarily malicious in his intents – but simply understands that in order to find a woman he’ll be genuinely happy with, he has to date around and experience many women, and see which will suit him the most.<\/p>\n In any case, knowing that women will easily\u00a0go for someone who\u2019s completely different to their imagined ideal version of “the perfect guy”, is a very liberating realization.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are many ways, but to begin with, you have to be authentic and unapologetic. Be open about your sexuality and don\u2019t try to hide the fact that you like sex. Don’t be afraid to challenge women, and speak your mind because that will always create emotions during your conversations naturally.<\/p>\n But that’s just the tip of the iceberg,\u00a0the absolute basics.<\/p>\n If you want to learn how to have conversations and interactions with women which are not boring and which create tons of emotions on all of your dates with women, be sure to read this:<\/p>\n What to do on a date with a girl to never be seen as a boring man!<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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<\/a>Women Will Tell You They Want Nice Men Who Treat Them Well<\/h2>\nMany women have no clue what they want<\/h3>\n
How To Get Any Girl You Want? Create Strong Emotions<\/h2>\n
How Do You Create Those Strong Emotions?<\/h3>\n